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This blog series aims to provide information on awareness and survival strategies to increase safety and reduce risk. The theories and findings do not claim or insinuate that the survivor was responsible for the attack; the only person responsible for the attack is the assailant.
The blog content may be triggering, with references to violence, abuse and trauma. Proceed at your own pace and if you experience intense physical and emotional reactions while reading, stop and take as much time as you need before you continue.
For help on managing triggers, proceed to GROUNDING TECHNIQUES and for professional resources proceed to SUPPORT SERVICES.
• “Target” is someone the predator plans to but has not yet successfully attacked.
• “Victim” or “survivor” refers to those attacked.
*Note that the terms above are not intended to confine personhood to the attack but only to refer to them within the context of a violent incident.
• “Predator”, “perpetrator," "attacker," or "assailant" refers to the violent offender who intends on or is successful in causing harm to another.
*Note that the non-gendered terminology is meant to reflect the reality that violence can be perpetrated by either men or women, even if the majority of violent offenses (either against women or men) are perpetrated by men.
• “Self-defense” is the reasonable use of force to protect oneself or others, in response to force used against a person or others.
• “Assault” is the intentional application of force (with or without a deadly weapon) to another person without their consent, which may result in wounding, maiming, disfiguring, or endangering the target.
The goal of this blog series is to provide more information, tools and options in reducing risk and aiding in survival. These strategies are not hard set rules as every situation is unique.
If you are a survivor and did anything other than what is presented in the blog, you did not do anything wrong. You did everything that you needed to survive with the tools that you had at the time.
If in the future you encounter threats and do not use the tools explored, or tried them but were unsuccessful, you still will have done nothing wrong. The only person in the wrong, is the assailant.
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